> go get a life, why doncha?
im confused. i dunno how to "read signs" anymore.
reading between the lines is such a chore, really ... and so is pickingup hints and gawd knows im either too fcukin' slow for the uptake, or i over-react and/or overthink into an (seemingly) innocent situation ... and now i suddenly find myself left dangling in the wind ... like a balloon with the air left out ... and i swing about manically without a purpose ... saturday daylight running out fast ... how like that?
tho the irony of being lost and confused could always be "calmed" by doing one single thing; one single action: by opening and looking into my wallet ... and i am confused no more ... the empty compartment screams volumes and the answer in imaginary floating hot-pink-neon-lights pulsates and pumps and i get the hint ... and i put the phone down ... and turn away ... i gravitate to thy blog and proceed to whine about it ... quite the no-life-scenario that i had the distinct privilege to having it thrown back to me yesterday as these words were spoken point blank into my face: "you got no life ah?" - simple but yet effective ... (i like) ... my answer: "YAH LOR!" and that weren't no farnie reply meant neither! that was the truth and neither was i ashamed of it (well, not that much anyways) nor proud of it, becoz: that's just the way it is now, ya know? (tho i haveta admit, maybe that's why she bolted .. hhmmm ... damn )
peeps say: "change! change your life! go out! get out and have a life! go do something!
does "going out" equate to "having a life"?
couldn't "being at home, comfortable being online and typing away", be "a life" as well?
or does "having a life" really mean "having a life outside of your normal routine?"
then maybe it boils down to each and everyone's definition of what "having a life" means, innit?
what does "having a life" mean to you?
reading between the lines is such a chore, really ... and so is pickingup hints and gawd knows im either too fcukin' slow for the uptake, or i over-react and/or overthink into an (seemingly) innocent situation ... and now i suddenly find myself left dangling in the wind ... like a balloon with the air left out ... and i swing about manically without a purpose ... saturday daylight running out fast ... how like that?
tho the irony of being lost and confused could always be "calmed" by doing one single thing; one single action: by opening and looking into my wallet ... and i am confused no more ... the empty compartment screams volumes and the answer in imaginary floating hot-pink-neon-lights pulsates and pumps and i get the hint ... and i put the phone down ... and turn away ... i gravitate to thy blog and proceed to whine about it ... quite the no-life-scenario that i had the distinct privilege to having it thrown back to me yesterday as these words were spoken point blank into my face: "you got no life ah?" - simple but yet effective ... (i like) ... my answer: "YAH LOR!" and that weren't no farnie reply meant neither! that was the truth and neither was i ashamed of it (well, not that much anyways) nor proud of it, becoz: that's just the way it is now, ya know? (tho i haveta admit, maybe that's why she bolted .. hhmmm ... damn )
peeps say: "change! change your life! go out! get out and have a life! go do something!
does "going out" equate to "having a life"?
couldn't "being at home, comfortable being online and typing away", be "a life" as well?
or does "having a life" really mean "having a life outside of your normal routine?"
then maybe it boils down to each and everyone's definition of what "having a life" means, innit?
what does "having a life" mean to you?
many peeps might not equate:
ReplyDeletegot money = can go out to "get a life"
but reality is (for me/us):
got money = might even stay at home
is that "wrong"?
if going out wif frens getting sloshed, hanging out til the early morn, binge at some shi-shi restaurant and whatever activities that peeps "deem" = "a life", and wakingup the next morning having only a hnagover and a faint memory of what had happened? = then i'd stay at home instead.
as bittergrapes at it may sound, maybe old fogeys like me would rather (by design or default) stay away from the manic crowds that seem to be unto sheep and cruise the highways of entertainment for the masses, innit?
heck, to be fair, i've been there and done that as well, so maybe tis about time to keep stock and keep track of "youth" innit?
am not making much sense am i? heh ;p
yes, i agree with you ... let those who judge face the consequences themselves ... for tis your life you're leading ... and not for anyone else, innit?